Okei.. As a Muslims we have to know and do it.. if we want to be couples..
we must get our marriage first. ^_^
We can lives like the non-believers.. but if we do.. we also are being the non-believers.
Note : Just go get your marriage's and than do the things that you want to do with your couple's. Why do we haves to follow them if we know that they did the wrong things.. just follow your Prophet(p.b.u.H) and your Creator rules.. Insya'Allah we will be fines.. here and here-after. Ameen. Peace guys.. ^_^